Frequently Asked Questions
How much does it cost?
This Service is Completely FREE!
is my identity protected?
Your real email address is
always hidden in all your correspondences via our anonymous web-based email
system. We will never reveal your personal information, such as your real
name or email address to any other members.
my e-mail address be given out to mailing lists?
NO. I hate getting junk mail
-- AND junk e-mail. I would never, for no amount of money, give out this
list. We do, however reserve the right to send out our own newsletter to
our members, but we promise we won't send them more than once a month.
If you delete your profile, everything including your email address is
What do you mean by "profile"?
Each new member is required to answer a list of
multiple choice questions that provides a profile of their interests, values, and personality
characteristics. This data provides a detailed "profile" of the person without revealing their identity. Other members can
search the database for people who fit the "profile" they are looking for. To see what one of these profiles looks like,
Take the Tour.
everybody see my profile?
No, only other members who
have filled out their own profile and have a password. This is a
Members Only Site.
What information is required to register?
The Process page (click to view) is the best place to get detailed information about this.
do you mean by "anonymous" email?
When you send an email to
another member, your real email address will never appear in the "From"
field, only the alias that you use on the site. Your real email address,
name and other personal information are never disclosed to other members
and it is up to you to reveal that information when you decide to do so. More
information about anonymous e-mail can be found by Taking the Tour.
do I know if mail I sent was received?
When you login, click on Mail Messages, and then click on Check on Mail Sent.
do I view my profile?
You can very simply view
your profile by clicking on User Tools,
and then My Profile icons on the top
toolbar. If you want to modify anything, you can go to User
Tools, and then Modify my Profile.
do I resign from the service?
We hate to see you go, but
we hope it's because you found love! You can delete your profile from the
if I forgot my login and/or password?
click on this link to have it emailed to you.
do I add a photo?
Adding your photo is very
simple! You just go to User Tools,
and select Submit Photos. Please
read all the instructions carefully before sending your photo. Your
profile will get 8 to 10 times as much attention after you submit a photo.
I delete just my photo?
Yes. If you want to
remove only one or both photos after uploading them, you can do so from
the User Tools menu, and then select
I modify my profile from time to time?
Yes! You can
click on the User Tools on the top
menu, and then click on Modify Multiple Choice or Modify Essay Answers.
can I search for someone from a specific location?
You can search based on Country
and State / Province (and 27 other criteria!) from the Detailed